My introduction to sex was less than healthy. At 16 I was sent to live in a reform school where conversion therapy was attempted on me, and all expressions of sexuality were shamed and repressed. True horrors unfolded for me that had lasting impacts on my sexual identity. At 21 I became a professional Domme as I sought to reclaim that which was authentic and powerful within me. I found my voice, my passion, and then my first calling.

For years I delved into the art of BDSM. I unlocked and explored key parts of myself and then was able to do the same for others. As I evolved through my sexual experience I enjoyed helping others do the same. Nothing felt like it was worth learning until I could use it to help others find their way.

At my core I am a deeply sexual person and view sex as an expression of love for myself through solo play, as well as a channel through which intimacy with a partner flows. As I experienced relationships and new partners of all genders and orientations, that love of sexuality in all of its beautiful iterations grew and matured.

In my 30’s my second calling manifested and I became an embalmer and funeral director. Through grief counseling I learned how to hold space for people in their most vulnerable and painful moments. I found new ways to guide people through emotional pain, where previously I had delved into the physical.

After cancer, I had to relearn my body following multiple surgeries including a hysterectomy and double mastectomy. I once again leaned on solo sex to guide me through my body’s new truth . Once I did so, the next thing to do was to help others find their way after trauma, illness or a surgical transition. My pain has always been my greatest teacher, and through it I learned to be a healer as well.

My life now is dedicated to being a safe and loving sexual sanctuary, where individuals and couples can lean on me while they confront deep fears and insecurities. I guide people in their healing as they find first themselves, and then the language to communicate all that they desire. Seeing people flourish and grow and claim their sexual authenticity is the joy of my heart, and I can’t wait to see how I can help you on your journey!